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Wednesday, 31 October 2007

  • Long time, no updating from me!!!

    Bad me... over a year since I was here...tsk tsk!!!

    Anyway, just wanted to let whoever reads this thing that I have signed up to do 'NaNoWriMo' this year... if you don't know what that is, its a writing challenge... you are supposed to write 1,668 words per day, for 30 days, to have a total of 50,000 words to a novel by the end of November...OY!!!

    My muse has been dead for such a long time now, I only hope I can resurrect her enough to actually do the challenge...LOL!!!

    Anyway, that's it for now.. catch you on the flip side :o)

Sunday, 03 September 2006

  • What If?

    What if fat was healthy because fat people had some
    cushioning and some reserve food stores to live on,
    and skinny people were said to be putting themselves
    at risk, and stigmatized for making this stupid health
    decision?

    What if people went up to skinny girls in the street
    and said "Oh, you'd be beautiful if you'd just gain
    weight!"

    Or "You're thin, but you're beautiful on the inside!"
    Or looked at me like I was in some way sick and
    disgusting?


    What if all clothes below size 10 came in girly
    pastels, with the reasoning that small women are
    underdeveloped and childish?

    What if they were called `minus sizes'?

    What if thin people had to go to special stores to buy
    clothes, because none of the regular stores wanted to
    stock clothes for them, saying that they're disgusting
    and their patrons wouldn't want to look at them?

    What if all models were a size 16 or above, but every
    once in a while you'd see a "minus size" model in a
    size 8 cut to make her look larger?

    What if "too fat" wasn't the greatest thing, because
    it was acknowledged to not be terribly healthy, but
    the models who were "too fat" still got all the
    modeling jobs, and they were told that they might want
    to lose a little weight but nobody took it seriously?
    And meantime "too fat" was infinitely better than "too
    skinny"?

    What if thin people were depicted in the media as
    obsessed with exercise and starving themselves, and
    thus not sexually interested?
    And fat people were depicted as able to enjoy their
    food, and their lovers, with relish?

    What if a TV character as popular as Friends' Monica
    was depicted as once having been thin, not even
    unhealthily so, and she was the butt of jokes for
    that?

    What if X percent of the American population was
    labeled "underweight"?

    What if food commercials focused not on low-fat, but
    high in nutrients to gain weight?

    What if people said "I don't understand what's wrong
    with skinny people. All they have to do is eat! It's
    not that difficult. They must be pretty stupid not to
    figure that out."?

    What if there were no labels saying "Low Fat" but
    instead they said "High Fat"?

    What if magazines ran stories on "How to Maximize the
    Glory of your Curves"?

    What if 7-year-old girls, copying their moms, asked
    their friends "Does this make me look too skinny?"

    What if magazines ran bogus ads for weight gain
    powder? And the ads said "Mary gained 25 pounds in 8
    weeks combining a high-nutrient diet, exercise to gain
    muscle mass, and Product X"? And they showed a picture
    of Mary wearing baggy clothes to make her look skinny
    and waifish, while in the "After" picture she was trim
    and tan? And women looked at Mary, who didn't need to
    gain weight to begin with, and say "If she's skinny, I
    must be a stick" and started gorging themselves?

    What if thin people had to pay more for clothes and
    underwear and almost no pretty bras came in anything
    under a size 40?

    What if there was an operation to enlarge the size of
    one's stomach or inject fat under the skin?

    What if middle-aged women were admired because they
    had put on some weight after age 30 and young women
    were simply `too thin'?

    What if kids made jokes like "Your mama's so thin, she
    blew away when I flapped my arms"?

    What if people talked to thin people slowly on the
    assumption that they were like children?

    What if thin people had to learn to be witty, because
    else they would be utterly ignored by the opposite
    sex?

    What if studies showed that thin could also be
    healthy, not just fat, but the mass media only paid
    lip service to them?

    This would be ridiculous.

    Then why is the reverse still OK?

    Author Unknown

Friday, 07 July 2006

  •  

    Metaphorically Speaking

    The flower grows reaching for the elusive sun
    Her futile attempt to live a life fulfilled
    Only to be chopped down again and again
    Before her blossom can open

    Each and every time she tries to grow
    And to live, she gets broken down to the
    Very ground her roots are planted in
    Yet still she tried, and tried...

    Until the time came when she realized
    That hopeless was the cause of trying
    To stay alive, to grow, to let the flower bloom
    So she gathered herself into her little hole to die...

    But the rains came, and the sun shined sweetly
    Persistently on the withered stem of the once hopeful plant
    With careful watering and gentle rays from the sun
    The little flower took a chance, once more opening herself up

    To reach for the sky with hope of living a full life
    With the blossom of soul opened up and reaching
    Trustingly for the once elusive sun now nourishing her soul
    So that finally, after a lifetime of trying, she begins to live...

    © FluffySoft/Xenacat2001

    070706

Wednesday, 21 June 2006

  • Installing LOVE

    Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process?

    Tech Support: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?

    Customer: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready. What do I do first?

    Tech Support: The first step is to open your Heart. Have you located your Heart?

    Customer: Yes, but there are several other programs running now. Is it okay to install Love while they are running?

    Tech Support: What programs are running ?

    Customer: Let's see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge and resentment running right now.

    Tech Support: No problem, Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but it will no longer disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem.

    However, you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ?

    Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

    Tech Support: With pleasure. Go to your start menu and invoke Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have been completely erased.

    Customer: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Is that normal?

    Tech Support: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other Hearts in order to get the upgrades.

    Customer: Oops! I have an error message already. It says, "Error Program not run on external components." What should I do?

    Tech Support: Don't worry. It means that the Love program is set up to run on Internal Hearts, but has not yet been run on your Heart. In non-technical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others.

    Customer: So, what should I do?

    Tech Support: Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive-Self; Realize Your Worth; and Acknowledge your Limitations.

    Customer: Okay, done.

    Tech Support: Now, copy them to the "My Heart" directory. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming. Also, you need to delete Verbose Self-Criticism from all directories and empty your Recycle Bin to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.

    Customer: Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves all over My Heart. Is this normal?

    Tech Support: Sometimes. For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. So Love is installed and running. One more thing before we hang up. Love is Freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. They will in turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.

Wednesday, 14 June 2006

  • I wrote this for a friend who is dealing with some issues right now...
     
    beautiful soul
     
    beautiful soul, filled with love
    offering it freely
    yet
    getting nothing in return
     
    lonely soul with walls built high
    blinded by your own fears
    unable to see what's right in front
    of you
     
    how long do you think she will wait?
    she is standing there
    her hand stretched out
    waiting for your grasp
     
    waiting for you 
    reach out your hand
    grasp the love of one so dear
    she is standing there with her hand out to you...
     
    will you open up your heart
    let down your walls
    before she realizes what she's missing
    and she leaves you for one
     
    who can give her the love she
    needs
    wants
    and deserves
     
    let down your walls before
    its too late
    before someone else
    grasps the hand she holds out
     
    her beautiful soul is
    so filled with love to give
    she deserves to have that love
    cherished and returned 10 fold
     

    © Xenacat2001/FluffySoft

    061406

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